when does a teacher’s assist actually build strength vs. just do the work for you?

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The Question

I've been getting hands-on assists in arm balances and other challenging postures for months. How do I know if the teacher's help is actually building my strength, or if they're just doing the work for me? What's the difference between good scaffolding and being carried?

— from a MJH note

Our Response

You don’t know until the hand isn’t there anymore. That’s the test.

Good scaffolding gives you just enough support to find the shape, feel the engagement, build the neural pathway. It reduces the load but keeps you responsible for the action. Substitution does the thing instead of you—lifts your hip, holds your weight, creates the illusion of achievement. One builds capacity. The other builds dependency.

The gap reveals itself when the assist disappears. If you collapse immediately, you were being carried. If you wobble but hold some version of it, even badly, something was being built. If you go up clean, congratulations—you’ve been doing it yourself longer than you realized.

Most Mysore students have been quietly carried through postures they believed they were doing. It’s not malicious. It’s just what happens when teachers assist too much, too soon, for too long. The kindest thing a teacher can do is tell you, out loud, exactly what just happened: “I didn’t pull you up. You pulled you up.” Attribution matters. Agency lives there.

So ask. “Am I doing this, or are you?” A good teacher will tell you the truth. And when the hand goes away, you’ll have your answer either way.